Did you know that there are good men out there dying to find a good woman? I have heard girls lament over a scarcity of good men as if they are not necessarily distinct. Here is what I know for sure, like attracts like. Real men want women not girls stuck in women’s bodies. This is the reason certain women tend to have more than their share of great guys while others seem doomed to third grade dates. While it can be difficult to tell girls and women apart, here are obvious giveaways of the women men fantasies about and that girls they can’t stand.
Girls like to dress in revealing clothes because they think they look sexy; women know they look sexy no matter what they wear. Women understand that being provocative isn’t the only way to be sexy. A woman doesn’t have to have her everything hanging out in order to feel sexually appealing. Women are so confident in their own skin that they do not care what they are wearing they know that they are sexy because they are sexy.
You have seen them throwing up all over themselves, acting like maniacs after just a few tequila shots. Women do hold their liquor and know their limits and will say no to the next offer. Girls on the other hand live for free booze and can’t say no till they either black out or find themselves in the back of a random car.
You know you are dating a girl when she updates her Facebook status to “In a relationship” as soon as you ask her out. Women are just too busy with real life to bother updating their Facebook statuses. They will probably do it eventually when they happen to there and remember to do so, but they won’t go running onto the site the second they believe an updated status won’t freak out their new man.
Girls eat salads; women eat whatever they want. This isn’t to say that women don’t eat salads, some do. But they don’t eat salads in front of men just to go home afterwards and gorge themselves on pork ribs and chips. Women eat healthily because they respect their bodies. Girls eat healthily to let everyone else know that they are eating healthily. A real woman will sit down and have a real meal with you, with no fuss. She knows she can and because she wants to, she will.
There is a reason your friends are called girlfriends; women don’t need a group to live their lives. There is nothing, and I mean nothing, sexier than a female who can take care of herself. All females are capable of it, but few actually think they can manage on their own. They need confirmation from at least three whatsapp groups before doing anything from changing a hairstyle to changing career. Women know what is best for them and don’t need anyone to guide them. They are strong, confident and independent.
Girls watch junk TV; women read. Some TV is great TV the rest is pretty much garbage. Women do have their TV shows some being guilty pleasures – but they also like to spend their time with their nose in books and magazines with substance. They don’t enjoy filling their lives with meaningless pop-culture garbage that gets regurgitated over the decade. Women like to keep sharp. Girls like to keep occupied.
Girls expect their men to know how they feel and what they’re thinking; women use their words. Ladies… men cannot read minds. Girls believe that their men should understand them so well that they simply know what they are thinking, how they are feeling and what they are “hinting” at. Unfortunately, most men are not well-versed in picking up such signals. This is the point at which girls get frustrated while women accept their counterparts’ shortcomings and speak their minds instead.
Buy me a tab, buy me a phone, take me out blah blah . . . a girl’s financial demands are unending while women are financially independent. Don’t get me wrong, real men want to give you all those things but once you start demanding the will just dies. A woman, on the other hand, although confident enough to allow her man to pay for her sometimes, also makes a point to cover the bill herself from time to time for both of them. A woman likes to remind her man that she only keeps him around because he respects her and treats her well, and that she doesn’t need his cash.
Girls talk about trivial matters; women know how to hold a stimulating conversation. This is probably one of the biggest differentiating factors. Most girls are awful at holding conversations. They aren’t up-to-date on global affairs. They don’t have any intellectual hobbies or interests. And their opinions aren’t really their own, but are the opinions of others they heard and took as their own. Girls are boring. Women are fascinating.