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What Every Woman Should Know About Love, Sex And Men

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Where did you learn about love? Was it through movies, Mills and Boons or one of those self-help books? Most women learn about men, love, sex and relationships the hard way. They end up with emotional scars, broken hearts, abuse, confusion, anger and sleepless nights. When it comes to learning the hard way, you can get to know a great deal about men, love, sex and relationships, but most women who have traveled that path will tell you, “The price is too high and the consequences and lingering effects are way to painful!” Smart women understand this irrefutable truth.  There is an easier less complicated way to obtain the vital information they need to know about the opposite sex. Ladies, these nuggets of wisdom and sage advice will help set you on the right path to finding and experiencing true love. Share these life-saving truths with every woman you know. They will forever thank you!

  1. There are two types of males: Dishonorable males and honorable men. Don’t date or marry until you know how to tell the difference between the two.
  2. Honorable men are protectors. They will guard your heart, protect your emotions, defend your honor and stand as champions for your spiritual, mental and physical well-being; choose an honorable man and choose life.
  3. You are not a car; if you meet a man who wants to test drive your physical body, emotions and feelings, point him to a car dealership, bid him farewell and don’t look back.
  4. Good men need to be treated like good men, dishonorable males, need to be let go and left alone.
  5. OK ladies; you’ve met this great guy, but he’s got a child or children for which he does not take care of, provide for or see to. Follow these instructions to the letter: urgently send him back to the mother(s) of his child(ren) and don’t look back. Don’t make the same mistake the mother(s) of his child(ren) did!
  6. Dishonorable males treat sex as a sport, females as trophies and children they sire as wastepaper. Never allow yourself to become their next score, mantel piece or sperm repository.
  7. Women, who hold grudges, seek vengeance, cling to bitterness and are unwilling to forgive, unwittingly break their own hearts!
  8. If he doesn’t fit – don’t force him, just relax and let him go. Destiny is on your side true love will find you!
  9. Momma’s boys belong with only one type of woman; their moms! Ladies, these mothers and their sons will never cut their grotesque umbilical cord. Don’t waste your precious time.
  10. When it comes to men, act like the buyer, not the seller.
  11. Hold on to your girlfriends. They will fulfill you in ways a man can’t.
  12. Complaining and nagging don’t work. The only thing that really gets a man’s attention:
  13. In a negotiation, you’ll probably end up with the least you’re willing to take. This is true when it comes to men also. So: have high standards and stick to them.
  14. A man in love will do anything for you… until he realizes he has you. So when you give yourself to him, try to hold a little back to keep him on his toes.
  15. Settling rarely works. It’s like buying something on credit — you’ll eventually have to pay. Be picky.
  16. You don’t need to know how to cook but most men will appreciate it if you do.
  17. There are some fantastic men out there but whether one of them becomes your boyfriend or husband depends a lot on how much you respect yourself.
  18. Men want to be successful, at work and in their relationships. If you want to make him happy, show him that he’s succeeded in making you happy.
  19. Don’t get caught up in how good a guy looks “on paper.” His resume might make him seem like a catch but he might just be an asshole walking around in a catch’s clothing.
  20. Men will always look at attractive women, even when they’re in love. It’s not necessarily a bad thing. The good ones do it in a way that isn’t obvious.
  21. If a guy isn’t into you, don’t doubt yourself — doubt him.
  22. Your physical appearance isn’t the most attractive part of you. Cultivate charm; looks fade; charm is forever.
  23. Sex — and life, in fact — are most fun when you’re comfortable with yourself. If you’re not comfortable with yourself, you should make that a priority.
  24. Don’t play hard to get. Be hard to get.
  25. If you’re spending hours on the phone with your girlfriends analyzing a guy’s behavior, he’s not the one.
  26. Don’t be too nice when it comes to men. A woman who’s too nice is a turnoff. Don’t  you ever hide your intelligence, even if it feels like it complicates your love life. Being smart is invaluable and will ultimately serve you well in both life and love.
  27. If he’s not chasing you in the beginning, he’ll disappoint you in the end.
  28. It’s better to be alone than in a bad relationship. Know when to walk away and don’t look back.
  29. Romantic comedies are for women what porn is for men: fantasy. Men in real life don’t behave like characters Ryan Gosling plays on screen.
  30. Throw out your checklist. Love is an adventure — it’s best experienced without a map.
  31. Who he is at the beginning is probably the best he’ll ever be. If he’s not bringing his best when he’s first getting to know you, run.
  32. You will get over your ex. That moment of total recovery — when you can’t believe what  you were doing with him in the first place— is liberating. Don’t stand in the way of it by texting him, seeing him, or sleeping with him.
  33. Don’t ever compete with another woman for a man. It’s beneath you.
  34. Never revolve your life around a man. No matter how much he wants you around, maintain some independence. Your relationship will be better off for it and last longer.
  35. It’s not for you to prove yourself to a man. He should be trying to prove himself to you.
  36. You’re not a bomb. Stop worrying about the ticking of your clock.
  37. Today is the youngest you’ll ever be. Live it up.
  38. A man needs to hunt you and win you in order to value you. Don’t ruin it by giving it up too easily. In fact, make it the hunt of his life and he might just become the love of your life.
  39. If you feel like you need to check his phone, it’s already over.
  40. If you’ve never had an orgasm, you haven’t lived. Work on that.

 

 

 

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